What do I not miss about the United States? (after 7 months in Thailand) 🇹🇭

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Key Insight

The host identifies several key aspects of life in the United States that he does not miss after living in Thailand for seven months, including the mental health crisis, high cost of living, widespread unhappiness, loss of unique culture, and car dependency.

Key Takeaways

  • The US faces a significant mental health crisis, characterized by visible struggles and a lack of effective public policy to address it.
  • Artificial inflation, driven by policies like zoning restrictions and NIMBYism, contributes to a high cost of living and a declining standard of living for average Americans.
  • Widespread unhappiness and stress are evident in major US cities, leading to increased road rage and a general sense of people being 'beaten down'.
  • The US is experiencing a loss of unique culture and roots, with increased mobility for work leading to a lack of strong community ties and a reliance on consumerism, politics, or sports for tribal feelings.
  • Car dependency is a major drawback in the US due to inadequate public transit, contrasting with the diverse and accessible transportation options available in places like Thailand.

Full Summary

The host, Alex, shares his observations on what he doesn't miss about the United States after seven months in Chiang Mai, Thailand. He begins by highlighting the pervasive mental health crisis in the US, citing examples of public disorder and the inability of laws to effectively commit individuals who cannot function. This crisis is exacerbated by a culture of aggression and a political system that prioritizes business interests over solving societal problems, leading to a cycle of superficial solutions like pharmaceutical interventions.

Secondly, Alex discusses the high cost of living, attributing it partly to artificial inflation caused by poor policy rather than simple supply and demand. He points to housing crises, exacerbated by zoning laws and NIMBYism, which restrict new construction and drive up rents. This artificially constricts housing supply, increasing the value of existing homes and forcing people to work harder for basic necessities, ultimately leading to a declining standard of living for the average American.

The video further explores the widespread unhappiness and stress prevalent in US cities, where people appear 'beaten down' by constant work and overstimulation. This stress impacts relationships and family life, contributing to societal issues like road rage. Alex also touches upon the loss of unique culture and roots, noting how increased mobility for work has weakened community ties, leading people to substitute tradition with consumerism, politics, or sports for a sense of belonging.

Finally, the host criticizes the car dependency in the US, contrasting it with the ease of transportation in Thailand. He explains that the lack of robust public transit in most US cities makes a personal vehicle a necessity, leading to ongoing maintenance costs and a lack of freedom. This dependency is a significant aspect of American life that he no longer misses.

Questions Answered in This Video

what i don't miss about usa

After seven months in Thailand, the host identifies several aspects of life in the United States he no longer misses. These include the pervasive mental health crisis with visible public struggles and a lack of effective policy solutions. He also notes the high cost of living, driven by artificial inflation and restrictive policies like zoning laws and NIMBYism. The widespread unhappiness and stress evident in US cities, along with a loss of unique culture due to increased mobility, are also cited.

US mental health crisis explained

The United States is experiencing a significant mental health crisis, characterized by visible public struggles and a lack of effective policy to address it. This is often compounded by a culture of aggression and a political system that seems to prioritize business interests over solving deep societal problems. The result is a cycle of superficial solutions, such as increased pharmaceutical interventions, rather than addressing root causes.

why is cost of living high in usa

The high cost of living in the US is partly attributed to artificial inflation, driven by poor policy choices rather than simple supply and demand. Restrictive zoning laws and NIMBYism contribute to housing crises by limiting new construction and driving up rents. This artificially constricts housing supply, increasing the value of existing homes and forcing people to work harder for basic necessities, ultimately leading to a declining standard of living.

how has usa lost culture

The US is experiencing a loss of unique culture and roots, partly due to increased mobility for work. This has weakened strong community ties, leading people to rely on consumerism, politics, or sports for a sense of belonging. The emphasis on constant work and overstimulation also contributes to widespread unhappiness and stress, impacting relationships and family life.

is car dependency a problem in usa

Car dependency is a significant drawback in the US due to the inadequacy of public transit in most cities. This makes a personal vehicle a necessity, leading to ongoing maintenance costs and a lack of freedom. The host contrasts this with the diverse and accessible transportation options available in places like Thailand, highlighting it as a major aspect of American life he no longer misses.

Viewers Also Asked

why is cost of living high in the us?

The high cost of living in the US is partly due to artificial inflation caused by poor policy. Factors like zoning laws and NIMBYism restrict new housing construction, driving up rents and the value of existing homes. This forces people to work harder for basic necessities, leading to a declining standard of living for many Americans.

what are the downsides of living in the us?

Many people find the US has a pervasive mental health crisis, widespread unhappiness, and high stress levels. There's also a loss of unique culture due to increased mobility weakening community ties. Additionally, the car dependency, driven by inadequate public transit, is a significant drawback for daily life.

is car dependency a problem in the us?

Yes, car dependency is a major drawback in the US due to inadequate public transit in most cities. This makes a personal vehicle a necessity, leading to ongoing costs for maintenance, insurance, and repairs, and a lack of freedom compared to places with better transportation options.

why is the US considered to have a mental health crisis?

The US faces a significant mental health crisis characterized by visible public struggles and a lack of effective public policy to address it. This is exacerbated by a culture of aggression and a political system that often prioritizes business interests over solving societal problems.

how has housing become a crisis in the US?

Houses have shifted from being simple dwellings to primarily being viewed as investments. This change, particularly prominent since the 1990s, has culminated in a significant housing crisis.

what are the benefits of living in southeast asia compared to the US?

Living in Southeast Asia offers a less hectic lifestyle with a lower cost of living, where money goes further. It's easier and cheaper to travel around the region, and daily life is generally less stressful. People often report improved mental and physical health and a greater sense of work-life balance.

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Mental Health Crisis in the US

0:49 Hey YouTube, Alex here, coming to you today from Chiang Mai, Thailand. What do I not miss about living in the United States?

0:56 The number one reason I don't miss living in the United States is the mental health crisis. The clip that you just watched, I took that when I was living in Berkeley, California. I was riding home from doing laundry, and that's just one small example. If you could call it small, I know for those who haven't lived in the Bay Area, it looks pretty extraordinary. For those of you who haven't, that's just one small example of the chaos and the mental health crisis in the United States.

1:22 That's not just in California. The mental health situation seems to be spreading across the country. I know California gets a lot of flak. I think that's just because there's a large population there. If you've spent time in any major city in the United States and you've witnessed something that could only be described as a mental health crisis, there's no real way for the average citizen to address this due to changes in laws. These people cannot be committed.

1:51 What I'm talking about is there's certain individuals that cannot function. They are permitted to act out, do whatever they want to do. This issue is amplified by a culture of aggression. That guy was giving the bus driver a really hard time. I personally have been bugged by vagrant beggars, by people hanging around outside of train stations in the Bay Area. If you don't give them money, some tend to get quite angry.

2:14 Unfortunately, the political willpower is just not there to address the issue in any meaningful way in the US. It's a culture where it's acceptable not only to be aggressive, act out, depending on where you are, you're not going to get pushback at all as a response to this. Like with everything in America, if somebody can make a dollar off of putting a Band-Aid on it, they're going to. We see this with the pharmaceutical industry's pushing of that stuff.

2:40 The culture of aggression and the social struggle with mental ailments is not going to be solved anytime soon. The country is run by business owners, some of whom are willing to make money even if it actively prevents certain problems from being solved. The desires of these business owners seem to supersede everything else. I could go on and on about that crisis in the US. I'm not going to in this video.

High Cost of Living and Artificial Inflation

3:05 Definitely check out some of my other videos if you're interested in topics like that. Alongside that, I've had various mental health elements within my own family that I felt were not taken as seriously as they should have been. Some of that is due to being in an area with inadequate mental health resources, but some of that is also the culture of hustle and grind.

3:22 The number two point here is the high cost of living, caused in part by artificial inflation. What is artificial inflation? That is inflation that is caused by poor policy and not just supply and demand. People act like, 'Oh, America has supply and demand.' When you look at the housing crisis, the housing crisis is not caused because Americans have forgotten how to build housing. Americans don't have the skills to build new houses.

3:47 Americans are intellectually incapable of putting a house together. It's actually because of laws and zoning restrictions that fall under what many call NIMBYism. This policy artificially restricts the construction of new housing. It makes it such that 75% of dwellings in the United States are single-family homes. And if you can't afford that, you're going to be paying really high rent.

4:08 A lot of people think we just change the laws, alleviate it. Well, now construction has become so expensive. You got on the ladder or you didn't. It's not a matter of, 'Oh, they're going to suddenly make housing affordable.' No, the government wants to put pressure on people and financial stress on people by artificially constricting housing. Because not only does it make the existing houses go up in price dramatically, it also makes it so that people have to work harder just to pay for necessities.

4:36 I would describe the US as a country with a declining standard of living for the average person. While it may be going up in absolute dollar amounts, that doesn't take into account what those dollars actually buy. If those dollars buy less housing, less food, less transportation, they're not necessarily getting ahead, even if the number amount on their paycheck is going up.

Widespread Unhappiness and Stress

4:56 In an effort to survive, people give up a lot of the things that they used to enjoy doing because they need to work more hours to pay for things. The third point I have for you here is that there's a lot of unhappiness out there.

5:09 You notice that when you look at videos of New York City or San Francisco or LA, and you look at the street level, people are walking with their heads down. They just look beaten down from the stress of working all the time, not getting enough rest, probably drinking a lot of coffee and being overstimulated to get through what they need to do. And it's just a recipe for unhappy people.

5:33 I think it's hard on relationships. I think it's hard on families, and I think that's why so many people are opting out of having kids these days. You also see this in road rage. I remember in my hometown, it was extraordinarily rare to see road rage when I was a kid, and now it's very commonplace.

5:49 It's in the news on a regular basis. You see people just totally losing their patience while driving, and it's really another unfortunate sign. I frame it like the American working class people are beaten down.

Loss of Unique Culture and Roots

6:01 The next point, point number four, is the loss of unique culture. And this is something I've definitely noticed since the pandemic, where everything shut down. But it seems like everybody's kind of shifted away from any kind of tradition. They're just in the consumer mindset.

6:19 As a result of that, I think people lose some of the things that make them interesting or unique. In lieu of tradition, people substitute politics or sports to get that tribal feeling going. Because so many of us have moved around so much for work, like myself, then we don't really have roots in any one place. I am a migrant surf, where I'm willing to move just about anywhere in the US for work. I don't really care where it is.

6:43 And I think that was gone for a while. I think it might have been a thing a long time ago, but I think that's coming back where people, they just move to wherever the work is. They're not a homeowner where they're tied down to one location. I know some people will say that sounds awesome, but after a while, it gets old.

6:57 When I move to California, then I'm the guy from Tennessee. When I come back to Tennessee, I'm the guy who left Tennessee and moved to California. There are times where I wish I could just go back to my childhood home. I visited there several years ago, and I hardly recognized the place. I didn't see anybody I knew.

7:14 Most of the people I grew up with have moved on. The few people left were very fortunate that their families held onto a family home for a long time, but I think a lot of people were not in that situation.

Car Dependency and Lack of Public Transit

7:24 The fifth and final reason is the car dependency. I've been here in Thailand for close to eight months without a car, and I don't miss it. It's a necessity where I'm from, and when I'm in my hometown, it's always nice to be able to use a personal vehicle.

7:38 But part of that is a lack of public transit in my hometown. In my hometown, there's no train system. The bus system is pretty small. You're not going to get around on public transit. I don't know anybody that does, except for maybe some people that happen to live in a really good location where they can just get on one bus and ride 15, 20 minutes, which isn't very many people. It's just not a robust system.

8:02 But here in Thailand, not only are there a lot of things available within walking distance where I live in the city, but also there's songthaews, there's also tuk-tuks, there's Grab. There's a lot of different options for you to get around. You don't feel like you have to have a personal vehicle.

8:17 Even in a city like San Francisco, really densely populated, even in Manhattan, one of the most densely populated cities in the United States, 50% of the people have a vehicle. Outside of a small handful of expensive cities in the US, you have to have a car. I don't miss having to pay to maintain a vehicle.

8:34 I still own a vehicle back home, but at least while I've been gone, certain maintenance costs are deferred or not needed as frequently since I'm not there driving every day. Let me know if this video has been helpful for you. In this video, I discussed what I don't miss about America. This is a short list, so I'll probably make more content like this.

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